Mother safely advises 8-year-old girl to steer clear of her 3 kids who are playfully roughhousing in a public pool, girl refuses to listen and her parents scold the 3 children: ‘[She] gets splashed and loses her mind’

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Lana DeGaetano • "Show me to me please."
Jun 22, 2025 5:00 PM EDT

Pool safety is a big deal when you have kids. Parents don't want anything to happen to their little ones, obviously, and they also don't want to be the reason another person's kid is put into a hazardous situation. Pools can be a major source of fun in the heat of the summer, but they can also be the reason why you get into an annoying, entitled argument with Helicopter Parent Hannah. If her kid didn't want to get splashed, she should've told her kid that water is wet…

Though children can be little stinkers, the mom who posted this story's complaint is primarily with the little girl's parents. Instead of accepting that the mom had told the little girl to steer clear of her kids if she didn't want to get in the middle of their roughhousing, the parents took their frustration out on both the mom and her kids. Pools are playing, pools are for getting wet. If the little girl wanted to do neither, her parents should have communicated that prior, and this situation could have been avoided. Where were the parents, anyway?

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  • "AITA for tell a mom another pool her child was in the way?"

    We are on vacation. Our condo complex has a pool. My kids call it the fidget spinner pool, because that is what it looks like 3 wide areas that connect with the big part of the pool.
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  • 2 of the wide areas are 3 feet and one is 6ft the center of the pool is 4 ft. Me, my daughter and 2 nieces 10pm 11, 13 (I will just say my kids for
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  • story) are at the pool. There is another family with 3 kids and 4 adults. We are in one 3 ft section and they are in the other. I'm tossing dive toys for my 3 kids.
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  • A girl 8yrs old from the other family comes over and asks what the kids are playing with. They show her and ask if she wants to play. She says "no, I can't go
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  • under water" she then goes back to her family and gets in an inner tube. She slowly floats her way over to the section we are in and
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  • is now floating right in the middle blocking my kids from being able to throw the dive toys and go get them.
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  • I say "can you move that way just a bit? They want to throw their toys, and I don't want you to get hit with a toy" she just turns
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  • herself away from me, but doesn't move. My niece says "let's go to the deep section. It will make it harder anyway"
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  • They go over to the 6 ft section where no one is and lo and behold the little girl floats herself over there. I hear my niece ask
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  • again if she wants to play. (Don't know if the girl responded) she doesn't move. So the kids throw the toys around her. They all then
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  • dive for them and of course are splashing as they dive down. Little girl gets splashed and loses her mind.
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  • I see mom start moving towards her asking what happened? So I start walking over there too. As my kids are popping back out af the water she gets splashed again and screams they are splashing me on purpose!
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  • The mom looks at my kids and in a gruff tone asks" don't you 3 know it's not nice to splash people? Learn some manners" I
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  • then say. "My kids were playing over there when your little girl came over. They asked her to play and she said no but didn't move. So my kids came over
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  • here. She then flaoted herself over here where she was asked again to play. She again refused and jyst floated there. It's not
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  • their fault she was in the way of their game. She purposely came over here. Maybe she should learn some manners." Mom
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  • replies "she's only 8" then tells her daughter "come on, some people are just ride!" So are my kids and I the AH aka r de ones?
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  • RedHolly She's on a pool full of WATER, does she expect to stay dry?
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  • nuta172 NTA, I feel like these days anything kids related is such a sensitive topic. You can't say kids are doing anything wrong, it seems just an excuse for some parents not to do parenting
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  • Truth Hurts318 NTA If a parent won't teach their children to not be self centered, society will.
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